Why I Quit Bookstagram

Why I Quit Bookstagram

Hi everyone! Today, I want to share something that’s been on my mind for a while. I actually wrote most of this post last year, but then never put it online. But recently, I’ve been thinking a lot about social media and the way we use it (or how it uses us). So I went back to this post about Bookstagram, rewrote parts of it, and here it is.

One of the online spaces where booklovers gather, is Instagram. They have their own community/hashtag called Bookstagram and post photos of – you guessed it – books. For more than a year, I was one of the thousands of people who post there daily. But about a year ago, I… just stopped posting pictures because it was making me feel exhausted and causing anxiety. (To be fair, I have anxiety about tons of things, so it’s not entirely the fault of Bookstagram. But it definitely didn’t help.)

In this post I’ll try to explain why I quit Bookstagram. Some of it has to do with how social media work in general, some deal with Instagram as an app, and some are specific to this book-loving community. Mind you: the people of Bookstagram are generally really nice and I don’t have a problem with them. It’s more with the dynamics within the community that bother me, if that makes sense.

Back when I launched this blog in September 2017, I also created an Instagram account to promote my book reviews. Soon after I posted that first picture, the likes started rolling in. And so did the followers. I looked up how to grow your IG account and learned that you have to post daily, and like and comment on other people’s posts.

So that’s what I started doing

15 followers became 50, then 100, 150, and on and on. The average number of likes my photos got, quickly reached 100 as well. And I loved it! This was a community of people who shared my love for books, and seeing the notifications roll in was so satisfying.

But this growth started to slow down. After a few weeks, the average number of likes my photos got, stabilized between 100 and 150. And while at first the new followers piled up, the next few months my follower count moved upward at a glacial pace. To give you an example: I reached the milestone of 1.000 followers in early April 2018, after just over 6 months. About a year later, in March of 2019, I wasn’t even at 1.500 followers yet.

Notice how my average number of likes stayed the same, even though my follower count increased. Either my photos got uglier (and my followers didn’t like them anymore. But then why start following me in the first place?), or the Instagram algorithm started messing with me. Hint: I’m pretty sure it’s the second one.

Like a drug dealer

I don’t have hard evidence of this, but I am willing to bet it works like this: the algorithm – the way Instagram decides which pictures it’ll show to which users – boosts new accounts to get them hooked on the app, and then starts screwing them over. Why? Because you’ll start looking up how to keep growing your account, and you’ll read you need to spend more time liking and commenting.

Which means you need to spend more time in the app, scrolling through your timeline and stories. And that, as you probably know, means you get more sponsored posts shoved in your face. In other words: the more time you spend on Instagram, the more ads you see, the more money Instagram makes. It’s kind of like how drug dealers work. Which is messed up for an app we all use so frequently.

And I don’t know about you, but I don’t have hours to spend on Instagram every day. Especially not when it feels like I’m doing that just to fight the algorithm. It’s not fun anymore, it’s work. Because there are so many “rules” to this algorithm: a comment has to have at least 4 words, you need to reply to that comment within the hour, use hashtags in your post (or in a comment below it) but not too many, don’t use the same hashtags over and over, etc.


Another thing I noticed, is how some books automatically get more likes than others. Photos with books like the Throne of Glass series by Sarah J Maas, or Six of Crows by Leigh Bardugo, systematically get more likes than, for instance, the Veronica Speedwell novels by Deanna Raybourn.

one of my bookstagram posts

And I can understand that. You recognize the book, so it catches your eye and you tap that little heart. But it feels a bit superficial as well. Are we not using Bookstagram to talk about books and tell people about new books we discovered? Of course you can talk about these popular books as well, but when you want to gush about some more “obscure” treasure you unearthed, it feels like shouting into the void.

I know what you’re thinking now: but, but,… it’s not all about your follower count and likes. Yes, you’re absolutely right! Quality over quantity, and all that. But! Let’s not forget that these numbers are still important. You can’t deny the little boost of happiness when you see how popular your posts are. So you do whatever you can to make better pictures.


Which leads me to yet another thing that bothers me about Bookstagram: materialism. When you look up advice to create better pictures (or you look at the biggest accounts to see how they do it), you’ll read that you need a proper camera (psst: a decent phone camera works fine, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise), a nice backdrop (although a simple white sheet is very popular), tons of props so you don’t have to reuse the same ones all the time, and of course the books themselves. And I honestly got the feeling that for some people, Bookstagram is more “fancy photos that happen to have books in them”, instead of “I want to talk about this book so I’ll take a picture of it”.

one of my bookstagram posts

Which means there is a bit of elitism involved. If you have money to spend on dozens of books, fake flowers, daggers, candle holders, and so on, your account will generally do better than someone who doesn’t throw money at it. And not everyone has that kind of money to spare, especially not the teens who make up a considerable part of the community.

Fishing for freebies

But there’s a way to get free stuff through Bookstagram. Either books or props. Both publishers and owners of small businesses that sell hand-made items (candles, bookmarks, etc) regularly send out freebies to Bookstagrammers, in return for some promotion. You posts pictures of and talk about this upcoming book, or that candle, which gives them exposure. And they might repost your picture too, giving you some extra exposure.

Don’t get me wrong. For both publishers and these small businesses, it makes sense to do this. That’s just how marketing works. But from a marketing perspective, they will (generally) choose the bigger Bookstagram accounts over the smaller ones. And because these accounts get their hands on not-yet-published books, or boxes upon boxes of merch, they tend to attract even more followers.

This creates a vicious cycle: if you have money to spend on books and props, you can make pictures that are aesthetically pleasing (for instance: by matching the colours of the props to the book. But for this, you’ll need tons of props in all different colours). These pictures attract more followers. And when you have more followers, it’s easier to get more free stuff. Meanwhile, smaller accounts with limited financial means have to stand by and watch.

Beating the algorithm

The problem is: you depend on other people’s behavior for these things. If no one follows you or comments on your photos, you’re screwed.

Although, there are some ways to get more comments. You could do it the “organic” way and spend lots of time commenting on other people’s posts in the hopes that they’ll return the favour. Which not everyone does… Or you could use a few other tricks. Like promise a shout-out in your stories to people who comment on your posts. Or join a comment group. That’s a group of people who notify each other when they have a new post, so everyone can go comment. This way, they try to beat the algorithm (which reasons that “more comments = an interesting post = gotta show this to even more people”).

one of my bookstagram posts

I’ve been part of such a group for a while. And while the other members were all really fun and nice people, it still rubbed me the wrong way. You’re artificially boosting your interaction to get more likes and followers. Where’s the fun in that? And again, this started to feel like work.

It took me nearly an hour every day to catch up on the posts of my fellow group members. Since I have other things to do as well in real-life, I didn’t get around to scrolling through my feed and commenting on other, non-group members’, posts. Sure, the number of likes on my posts increased slightly (I’m talking a rise from 125 likes to 140, so nothing spectacular), but it felt fake. I want people to give my photos a like or drop a comment because they genuinely like them, not because we have some pact to game the algorithm or because I promised them a shout-out.

Negative spiral

And it’s this feeling that’s my biggest issue with social media in general. It all feels so fake and superficial. Yes, it can be a wonderful place where we meet new people and have conversations about the things we love. But it’s easy to get sucked into a spiral of wanting more likes, more followers, and more free stuff that goes with it. To get dragged along by the algorithms that manipulate you to spend more time in these apps.

But is that fun? To me it no longer was. It felt like an unpaid job with work that’s never finished. I have to check my notifications, I have to reply to comments as soon as they appear, I have to go like and comment on other people’s photos. It took away the joy and my time (seriously, I’d rather spend an extra hour every day reading instead of scrolling through that feed), and it even gave me anxiety.

I’m not saying Bookstagram is bad. There are so many great people and I discovered tons of books through it. But it has some issues, most of which are related to how social media in general – and Instagram in particular – work.

Strict boundaries

And yes, I let myself get sucked into the maelstrom. That’s totally on me. I should have set strict boundaries on my use of Instagram from the start. But let’s be honest, it’s a lot easier said than done to not get addicted to likes and followers. I guess that’s just human nature: we want to belong to a group, but at the top of the hierarchy. We want the biggest car, the most followers, and so on. The everyday ratrace is bad enough as it is, without the added pressure of social media.

one of my bookstagram posts

So that’s why I decided to take a step back from Bookstagram. At first, I had planned to still post from time to time, mainly to promote my blog posts. But honestly? Not that many people click through from Instagram to my blog. 

Up until February 3rd of last year, I had posted every single day for almost 18 months. After that, I posted about once a week for 2 months, to promote my blog posts. And since April 2019, I haven’t posted a single photo on Instagram. And you know what? I feel more relaxed and I get to read more. My love of reading is what drew me to Bookstagram, but it sure feels good to return to the basics. And who knows, I might start posting again in the future. But if I do, it will be less intensively than I did in the past. Bookstagram – and Instagram, and social media in general – should be a bit of added fun in your life. Your life shouldn’t revolve around showing off online and basking in likes.

Live the life YOU like, not the one you think your followers will give a “like”.

PS. If you’ve made it this far: congratulations! I am aware that this is a long and rambling post, but I needed to get it off my chest. And what better way to do that than to write? Anyway, feel free to share your thoughts with me in the comment section below!


  1. Yili

    thanks for the article, here I am in june 2022, I opened my instagram in january 2022, and I read all genres.
    but my favorite is thriller and classics, honestly i don’t feel confident going out in pictures, i don’t like it, but with the new algorithm instagram loves you to do reels, so well i started doing 3 reels a week, but what do you think i wasn’t getting views, and it’s impossible at this point not to compare, other accounts had more success and they had started just weeks after me, that made me feel super bad. besides bookstagram loves smut, spicy, fantasy. where are the people who love classics and thrillers i don’t understand them.
    and it’s true, i don’t have time to take up part of my day, giving likes, commenting, reposting every picture i see. Another thing. I noticed I was starting to read less because I was thinking about what to post next time. I’m fed up, Bookstagram also promotes a lot of consumerism, the pictures you take of books reading on kindle or ipad or from your tablet get less likes.
    At first I thought is Bookstagram is a community where people value photos of books, review, how wrong I was it’s too much of a face needed community and I feel it’s totally fake.

  2. Lin Meili

    Hmm. I recently self-published and I wondered if I should try my hand at Bookstagramming. Looks like it’s not as easy as I thought! I don’t think I could ever post daily…Thanks for the insight.

  3. S.M. Heinis

    I agree with this! I’m an writer trying to get into social media and building an ‘author platform’ but I’ve always failed with social media. I mean, even when I initially make a new account, I don’t get any kind of new user boost. I use hashtags, engage with others, try using all features of the app like stories, videos, everything and I still have no luck. I have 93 followers and my account is a year old in December. My old accounts from 2012-2017 would get 100+ likes on a bowl of food or a coffee, but a post I put hours into thoughtfully creating might get about 3. Unless followers are very interested in you and turn on post notifications, it’s difficult to get anywhere on that heavily saturated platform. I think the issue has only gotten worse in the age of covid, and these days if you make a new account it’ll be heavily restricted thanks to bot activity, which is getting extremely out of hand in itself.

    1. An Dierickx (Post author)

      Yeah, I agree that the platforms are so saturated these days! It’s ridiculously hard to get noticed by other people, unless you’re very lucky.

  4. Kishore

    Agree with every word you’ve written. As every other system, ‘bookstagram’ too is rigged in its own way and the growth here is set in a normative way which is really bad and takes a toll on a newbie in multiple levels. We need to sail through if necessary but we shouldn’t forget the basics, enjoy reading a book regardless.

    Keep writing 🤓

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  6. Tanaya Deshmukh

    I recently stopped posting on Instagram, I could relate to your “rambling” SO WELL! All that liking other’s posts only coz they liked and commented on yours felt weird! My biggest concern was it all seemed fake and hence I left it. I have been having an internal struggle thinking MAYBE I am overthinking and I could post in between, but I have realised whenever I go back, everything’s the same! So I have finally stopped posting and frankly feel relaxed. I now discuss about books with my close friends and we ACTUALLY listen to each other and recommend books! It definitely feels better this way!

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  8. M

    wow, some of these points I could relate to, and some I wasn’t even aware of that side of bookstagram. Thanks for being honest and upfront! I’ve only recently made a bookstagram account, but I’m going to limit the hours I scroll on there and take it in small doses.

  9. Thea

    Do you think it would be as easy to burn out for someone who is going into it specifically for the “dark side” or the glitzy pictures and shallow consumerism rather than to talk about good books? Someone who went into it well aware that it was a job and planning on making it their job?

    1. An Dierickx (Post author)

      Hm, that’s a good question! I think if you’re aware of all that, it would be easier to not get sucked into it as much. If you treat it as a job you can keep more distance from it, I guess.

  10. Beergut

    I literally just discovered the concepts of bookstagramming while reading a book on Kindle Unlimited, which lead me to Google Image Search for examples, which lead me to here. As a blogger for a little over 12 years now, you’ve described a phenomenon I’ve noticed in blogging, too. I primarily blog about college sports, college football in particular. I started out working for a large network, promising myself I would only write what I want to write about, and it wouldn’t be about the hits, like, or going viral. It’s difficult to do that, though, when the network is pushing you to constantly put out content and promote it improve their metrics. My plan was to post something every day, and it was pretty easy for me at first, because I had a lot to talk about, and I still do. The network encouraged us to follow other blogs and comments on their posts to promote the network, and I did that. As an avid reader and fan, I enjoyed reading what others were writing, as it inspired me and gave me ideas for my writing. In reading other blogs, I noticed an interesting trend: bloggers tend to hit a wall and quit at about 6-8 years after beginning. A lot of people said it was because real life, real life job, kids, family, etc, were the reason, but I noticed more and more people hitting that wall constantly around that time. I think after 5 years is when it started to feel less like a fun hobby you do because you enjoy it and it became more of a job. After a year or so of it being a job, people become burnt out, and it becomes more of a burden than a passion. People only tolerate a burden for so long before they decide to remove it from their life. I think this is what happened with many bloggers, and this is what is happening at an accelerated pace with you with bookstagramming. Post on social media because you WANT to, not because you HAVE to. The feeling of obligation takes all of the fun out of posting, so remove the part that isn’t fun. In your case, post because this book is so good, you have to talk about it, not because you’re trying to get more likes.

    Maybe you should start a ‘discussion only’ part of bookstagram, where you only post in front of a white sheet, a reductionist, simplified version, where the focus is on the book you’re reading and discussing that book, not the picture and the art. It may take away from the ethos of bookstagramming, but if it’s become oversaturated to the point where people are trying to figure out how to hack the algorithm, maybe that is a good thing.

    Thanks for an interesting post.

    1. An Dierickx (Post author)

      Thank you for your reply! That’s really good advice about doing a “discussion only” part of bookstagram! It’s sort of back to basics, because the whole thing should be focused on the book. And only post when I feel like it, because I know myself and I know I get bored quickly if I feel forced to do something.

  11. Emily

    I had the same experience! My account wasn’t as big as yours but eventually I felt burnt out and tired- I don’t have the mental energy to keep up. I have better things to spend my time on 🙂 thanks for sharing your experience!

    1. An Dierickx (Post author)

      You’re welcome! Instagram just sucks up energy, it seems…

  12. Sandra

    Thank you for your interesting post. Your show us the other side of bookstagram. I would really like to start an account but I’m not sure any more …

    1. An Dierickx (Post author)

      You’re welcome! I still think Bookstagram can be a great and fun place, so don’t let my post discourage you from starting an account. But I think it helps if you’re aware of these issues from the start.

  13. Chris

    I just joined Bookstagram a few weeks ago because I was looking for a place to talk about books and I’m already feeling of these effects you’ve mentioned. It feels so superficial and everyone is just looking for likes and followers rather than to talk about books! I think I might just have to find a bookclub instead haha. Thanks for this post, it really resonates.

    1. An Dierickx (Post author)

      Yeah, bookstagram can’t compete with a real bookclub 😀 Glad you enjoyed my post!

    2. Ivona

      Agree. I joined Bookstagram about a month ago and I already have the urge to leave. I can’t keep up with everyone’s posts, stories, tags, games and challenges. I absolutely love books, but I don’t read one book every week, let alone more than one. I have life offline and even if I didn’t, books are not the only thing in my life. Yes, it feels like unpaid job. I feel like to keep up, I’d have to post every day, read 2-3 books every week, repost other’s posts… I honestly feel a lot of people just post photos without actually reading a book. Anyway, I was googling ‘deleting bookstagram’ and that’s what brought me here. To sum up, my motivation when I joined was to talk about books, but I felt overwhelmed and I didn’t enjoy reading cause of bookstagram.

  14. Ran

    this!! all of this!! the consumerism aspect of bookstagram is what irks me most I think. I deactivate my account sometimes and I swear I read more during that hiatus. no time wasted scrolling!

    1. An Dierickx (Post author)

      Exactly, the scrolling takes up so much time…

  15. Johan Darmawan

    It’s like the different side of being bookstagram. Thank you for your suggestion.

    1. An Dierickx (Post author)

      You’re welcome! It’s the story of all social media, I guess…


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